Government will not support victims of domestic violence

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1. marty mars 1

   14 February 2017 at 10:30 am

   Shocking bastards

   More support needed, so much support needed and the gnats drop the ball again. Meanwhile the cost to every victim increases.
   • reason 1.1

     14 February 2017 at 1:32 pm

     +100 marty mars ….. last election nationals ex-leader ‘Johhny made-off’ twisted the words ( and was helped by the media ), while he engaged a a dirty attack on David Cunliffe ….. who spoke out about NZs shameful domestic violence rates ….

     They also subverted and shit-canned most of the Alcohol Law Review recommendations ………….. which were designed with the aim of lowering Alcohol Abuse ……. and the number of victims stemming from others Alcohol abuse….. Like children or partners

     New zealand did not get to lead the statistics for domestic violence in the developed world ………….. without knowing and informed decisions by the Government.

     Dirty Politicians not giving a stuff ………….
2. Keith 2

   14 February 2017 at 10:34 am

   This subject is a very complex one that needs a lot more work around it from parliament than just 10 day leave provisions. Parliament should be looking very hard at domestic violence but when they occasionally do it never seem to do much more than window dressing. Police Safety Orders were one such recent initiative.

   Unfortunately there are many families where domestic violence is a 24/7 issue and that for reasons that are almost inexplicable to the uninformed will not do anything to improve their situations. And although I loathe this government to the very last thread of their overpriced spiv suits, leave provisions to assist in sorting out this problem are in no way going to fix anything.

   Leave just may assist, just might, if the underlying matter was a one off as the uninformed seem to think they are and the affected person/s decided, as we all logically think, to up sticks and move away and end the chapter of their lives. But that rarely happens and taking time off work is not a factor in many cases. Many are unemployed or full time parents.

   There are so many roadblocks to dealing with the symptoms of this hideous violence let alone the causes but the number one issue is the security of those who want to walk away but cannot because there is in essence nowhere for them to go. Can you imagine having to deal with WINZ for example telling them you have had to uproot your family to another address and all that aggro and time that will go with that, in the environment Bennett and others have created? Imagine trying to find that other address anyway! Good luck to you.

   And furthermore there is no teeth in law to deal with it if the victims will not speak out because of that fear. These are areas the lawmakers need to look at now and urgently.

   But will they, I doubt it. The slur of being part of domestic violence makes you a loser in the eyes of the winners that is the model of government we have, even though it crosses all income boundaries. And because so very few, if any, who are in a position to assist in Parliament really know what happens in these households and if you don’t know what you don’t know it next to impossible to find a solution!
   • Cinny 2.1

     14 February 2017 at 10:39 am

     so very few, if any, who are in a position to assist in Parliament really know what happens in these households and if you don’t know what you don’t know it’s next to impossible to find a solution!

     Nailed it Keith, well said.
     • marty mars 2.1.1

       14 February 2017 at 10:46 am

       Domestic violence is rife and they know about it all right but like most they minimise it, ignore it, pretend it is something else -someone else, hide it, and just hope some magic fairys will make it all go away. It is INCREASING and as the pressure in society increases it will increase at a greater rate imo.
   • Draco T Bastard 2.2

     14 February 2017 at 11:09 am

     And although I loathe this government to the very last thread of their overpriced spiv suits, leave provisions to assist in sorting out this problem are in no way going to fix anything.

     And just when did you become omniscient?

     I personally think that it will help tremendously simply because it will give people the time and community support that they need to sort things out. And that’s both the victims and the perpetrators.
     • Keith 2.2.1

       14 February 2017 at 11:57 am

       Omniscient is a big word that is too big for me.

       But anyway Draco, what community support? This is NZ, 2017!

       And as I said many don’t have paid employment and to be blunt getting away from the home even if they are employed is a paradise compared to being there.
       • Draco T Bastard 2.2.1.1

         14 February 2017 at 12:21 pm

         But anyway Draco, what community support?

         Legislation such as this shows those in an abusive situation that they have support from the community and thus give them the strength to leave.

         Of course, more needs to be done.

         And as I said many don’t have paid employment and to be blunt getting away from the home even if they are employed is a paradise compared to being there.

         And so those people who are shouldn’t get any support?
         • Keith 2.2.1.1.1

           14 February 2017 at 12:45 pm

           Few want to know or want to get involved in the swamp of someones toxic relationship but there should be provision and finance from government agencies other than the police to actively get involved in domestic violence. I do not think there is anything out there in the community to do that.

           Our government does not do losers and they see these people as losers and as a result they don’t give a damn what happens. They would never admit it but to them this is because those “types” who do not donate to the National Party make bad choices, and if they just worked harder, got an education and grew their own vegetables (I don’t want to impinge on classic trademark Newstalk ZB mantra, but it says it all) and sorted their shit out it would all go away.

           And no, leave entitlements don’t exist for people who are not employed.

           Anyway this is fiddling while Rome burns. I am sure that this idea was with the best intent but it strongly suggests whoever thought it up thinks addressing vague symptoms is doing something. It is not.
           • Draco T Bastard 2.2.1.1.1.1

             14 February 2017 at 3:04 pm

             And no, leave entitlements don’t exist for people who are not employed.

             Leave entitlements are for those that need them. The majority of people are employed and relationship abuse doesn’t just happen to those unemployed as you think.

             Really, all I’m seeing from you is bigotry against those unemployed. To put it another way: You’re part of the problem.
             • Keith …

               14 February 2017 at 5:43 pm

               I’ll try and guide you through this gently.

               I’ll try and spell it out real simple, because if you read what I said in the first place you would see what I said. “Many are unemployed or full time parents” (NOT ALL ARE UNEMPLOYED). And full time parenting is a full time unpaid job, it really is. It is not a bigotry on the unemployed, its again, the real world.

               And then I said “even though it crosses all income boundaries” meaning it happens in houses of wealth and of the poor. No Draco, it does, really, you know people with money to burn, people who work, that sort of thing! But it does afflict the lower socio-economic groups more because their lives have so much more pressure namely lack of money.

               And it is so basic but if you don’t have an employer how do you get this leave provision??? Tell me how does this half arse tinkering help those people even a teency tiny bit?

               Again it is pissing about making good people feel good about themselves achieving nothing when real work needs to be done, right now in the area of domestic violence.
               • Draco T Bastard …

                 14 February 2017 at 6:11 pm

                 And it is so basic but if you don’t have an employer how do you get this leave provision?

                 Well, obviously, you don’t.

                 Tell me how does this half arse tinkering help those people even a teency tiny bit?

                 And so you declare, yet again, that people who work shouldn’t get help because it doesn’t help everybody.

                 But it does afflict the lower socio-economic groups more because their lives have so much more pressure namely lack of money.

                 [citation needed]

                 In fact, I read an article a few months back that estimated that abuse may actually happen more in rich families and get hidden more because of the pressure to front a perfect family.

                 As I said, more needs to be done but we shouldn’t wait round for a perfect solution because then we really will do nothing. This is just one step that needs to be taken.
                 • Andrea …

                   14 February 2017 at 6:34 pm

                   “This is just one step that needs to be taken.”

                   Based on results from other equality attempts, we then stand still for another half century or so until the next step is taken.

                   It doesn’t have to be ‘perfect’ but it does have to be more comprehensive. Ten days paid matters not a jot when the perpetrator ensures that the victim gets no money anyway. Or has to account for every sum, every minute.

                   I’m pleased that Ms Logie has included men. Long overdue.
3. Cinny 3

   14 February 2017 at 10:35 am

   You would have to be heartless to not vote for this bill to go ahead

   Imagine this, your abuser drops you off and picks you up from work, dictates what you wear, and threatens you with your life and the lives of others if you tell anyone. Because that is the reality of it for some.
   The beatings are well hidden, bruises and scars can be covered when they are selectively placed.

   This bill offers help and hope to those suffering from the sort of abuse others could not even imagine.

   Kudos Jan and to all those whom support and vote for this bill, THANK YOU, from the bottom of my heart.

   To the outgoing government and any who vote against it, you are the type of people who perpetuate and excuse domestic violence, you are the enablers, the gutless, the cowards. You have no place in any parliament, especially in our parliament.
   • Draco T Bastard 3.1

     14 February 2017 at 10:55 am

     To the outgoing government and any who vote against it, you are the type of people who perpetuate and excuse domestic violence, you are the enablers, the gutless, the cowards. You have no place in any parliament, especially in our parliament.

     QFT
4. Draco T Bastard 4

   14 February 2017 at 10:53 am

   Reposted link:
   Domestic violence leave a small cost to employers but priceless to victims

   When Simon Earle decided to make five days’ domestic violence leave available to his 30 employees, he wasn’t concerned about the extra cost to his payroll.

   As it turns out, he had good reason. In more than three years, only one person has used it – for one day – even though it is open to victims and perpetrators.

   Yes, we can just leave it to the employers and some will do it (a very small minority) but we need to have it available for everyone and thus it needs to be compulsory.
5. adam 5

   14 February 2017 at 12:15 pm

   From a government who cut support to women’s refuge. Who would expect anything less?

   This lot are lacking in any ideas, except more austerity.

   Now they have even given up, listening to business.
6. greywarshark 6

   14 February 2017 at 6:04 pm

   Government won’t support victims of domestic violence.
   Government won’t support victims of violence.
   Government won’t support victims.
   Government won’t support.
   Government won’t……………………………….!
   Government………………………….?
   Govern meant?
   Govern?
   Won’t!?!

   Men as well as women are victims of this government’s violence. How can we socialise men as well as their families to not be violent, when the government actually leads the way to violence and depravity?

   From Idiot Savant
   Judith Collins is to blame for this rape
   When Judith Collins introduced double-bunking into New Zealand prisons, she was warned that it would lead to more rapes. She didn’t care. The news today reports that a prisoner has been raped due to double-bunking – a rape made possible by the policy Collins introduced. I don’t think that it was a desired outcome of the policy, but it was a likely one, and Collins has showed depraved indifference to it. And that makes her criminally culpable. She should be in the dock too.

   Posted by Idiot/Savant at 2/14/2017 03:00:00 PM Links to this post
   Labels: Corrections, Judith Collins, Justice (Just ice in my wine thanks, is her type.)
7. Korero Pono 7

   15 February 2017 at 9:37 am

   What this government does is makes it harder for women to leave, cutting funding across social services, using the benefit system to control and subject women to further abuse at the hands of over zealous public servants, forcing women into poverty, causing further stress and mental health issues. In reality the government is not much different than perpetrators of domestic violence, except their abuse is legislated and deemed acceptable by many.

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